Doesn't make sense

As someone who has been viewing status and stories on Instagram and whatsapp I see many contents regarding break up, unemployment and so on, but in my own general opinion it doesn’t make sense for me, this is not to hurt or criticize someone who is doing that, I would not argue that my point is right, but I wanted to open about this and share my thought.

In my opinion literally everyone goes through breakup and unemployment, that’s our own problem and we need to deal with that by ourselves. The person who has the capability to make you employed is not viewing your story on Instagram, he has got things to do. The other persons like me who watch your story don’t have time to deal with your depression because we have got our own set of things to deal with. Someone who truly loves and cares about you, who has an idea of what you are dealing with is the one who can understand your agony. For instance, if 100 people view your story, only 2 or 3 really care about your bad days. At the same time, if you upload something like you achieved something in life, 50% of people will respond to you by saying “Congratulations' '. Nobody likes to enter the dark room, because it's scary, they feel blindfolded. Nobody wants to be a part of failure, including me. But everyone wants to be a part of success. The one who stood with you on your darkest days are the ones who really care about you. You don’t call to everybody on your contact in your darkest days, you’ve got 2 or 3 truly loved ones.

I have made many friends since my childhood, and I remember each one of them. But I’m not sure that they would remember me. The ones we are close to now are the ones who we really care about, that’s the sad reality. This doesn’t mean that we forget the old ones, but the truth is, the old one’s have made new friends. The videos of 10+ years of friendship we see on social media are not fake, but we don’t know whether they stayed together and hung out for 10 years. At times, distancing ourselves from closed ones is the best way to stay connected in the long run.

This doesn’t fit with your wife, she didn’t choose you to stay alone, she chose you to live and make memories with you. Distancing yourself, perfectly fit with your friends. You need to be separated at times and be alone and start working towards your goal. Staying connected once a week or once a month is perfect in maintaining long term connections. 

If you are having a bad day, call or text the ones who could make you feel better. Uploading your cons in public will make others view you like you’re a weak guy. Try to find the one to pacify you at times during the darkest days. You deserve her and she deserves you. Your whole contact book doesn’t need you, if they need you, they’ll text you. 

Thanks for reading!