Nobody taught me this

This was in my chest for so long, so finally today I wanted to break it down. I don't know how many of you guys remember this but let me say it again, This is about the hospital and caretaking thing.

When my mom was admitted in the hospital few months ago, Nobody taught me How to take care of her, but in general the nurses instructed me for some measures that they studied in their nursing college, other than that they didn't say nothing, every measure i did to take care of my mom was not taught by anybody to me, it was just me and myself who learned it. Nobody taught me that I should hold her hand when she walks to the toilet, Nobody taught me to feed her on the spoon during meals, nobody taught me to cover her legs with a blanket because she can't do that on her own. it was all learnt from my own. I didn't attend medical school to take care of my mom. I have watched movies and have heard some advice from people who have gone through the same circumstance in the past. These are the things I consumed for myself from them and was not forced to learn. I know it's my responsibility to take care of my mom. 

so similarly, I get lot of advices from people who exclaim like,

1. Bro, if you don't know how to do this you can't survive in this world.

2. Dude, you need to know how to tie a knot, it's a basic thing. If you Don't know how to do this, how would you do it? Bla bla bla, it's gonna be hard for you.

3. Learn how to do this. It's gonna be helpful for you in the future.

it's like me saying to them, you need to know how to be in the hospital, you need to know where to get the medicines.

Everybody needs to understand this, I'll learn when it's the perfect time for me and you will learn what I learnt when that happens to you. The things that happened for me are not written in your life and the things that happened for you are not written in my life. so just don't make everyone prepared based on your life experiences, because they will be prepared for themselves when it's the right time for them. If you feel that they need your valuable advice go for it or else just zip up your mouth and leave their path free.

Thanks for reading.