Fuel

Imagine riding a bike and you ran out of fuel, your vehicle stopped in a busy road and nobody could help you because everybody has their own tasks to deal with. On the flip side, imagine your bike stopped on a rural road and there's not many vehicles passing by, but the advantage you have is,  if even a single vehicle passes by you've got a hand to help you out.

Similarly when you are completely drained due to an unexpected event in life, and there's literally nobody to fuel you up, because literally everybody has to deal with their own problems, but On the flip side if you are with a person who's going through the similar situation or might have gone through the similar situation in the past. They know how it feels, fortunately if you have that person's shoulder to lay your head on. You might end up finding the solution, they might join you on the recovery process, throughout your lonely recovery journey. As they have dealt with that same problem in the past, they'll guide you with the perfect solution you deserve. 

But for the most part this is not something you should choose, because it's a factor of luck and time. It's an empty road and we can't assure someone's gonna come and help us out. So always you need to be prepared to solve the problem by yourself and should not be expecting that you'll have someone to help you out. It's better to choose yourself to help you out rather than searching or expecting for other's.

Thanks for reading!