First impression

When someone makes conversation with you, it may be a random person or someone from your family, what makes you admire them. Is that person's behaviour in the past? The answer is "Yes" but that's not the main cause for admiration; Either the person gifted you or offered money to buy the cycle you were craving for years, the answer is 'Perhaps Yes' but we don't just admire them for the material they furnished, but we admire them by the words feeded into our brain by the blood relations (Mom, dad, siblings) either it can be possibly anyone, I don't mean it's only the family members who can trigger our brain, possibly anyone can. But those words determine our behaviour with that person in the future.

If Mom or dad praises someone like, Ms.Veronica is a good aunt, she has been bringing chocolates for you since your canine was starting to pop out, but unfortunately dad never allowed you to eat chocolates, Because dad was experiencing cavity during that period and he did not wanted to see your teeth with black pits, thanks to your dad. But aunt Veronica really loves you sweet heart. I'm glad that you've such an inspiring, supportive Aunt. This triggers our brain instantly and Veronica is saved as someone to be admired for the lifetime.

Concurrently, it's your birthday, you are turning 8 years old, Dad has arranged a party and has invited over some of the neighbour's. You are receiving Presents and your best friend(❤️✨) surprised you with the favourite Bicycle, You are really having a delightful time at the party, Musical Gifta's music is being played in the background and everybody is gathered in front of you, They are gathering to see a tiny little boy's cake slicing event and that's you. With all excitement in the room, suddenly a slap sound pops out overlapping Gifta's music and with sudden chaos you see your dad slapping the guy, he's angry.

After some period of chaos, the cake is sliced and the first bite is given to your dad, later everyone is served the cake by your Mom and finally the fun is over. Everybody started to leave and randomly you notice dad speaking about the guy he slapped. You hear him saying "He was trying to steal the birthday cake and I figured that out and notified everyone with a slap"

The very next day you see him upfront in the street and no respect was displayed by you, because your brain remembered what happened the past day and how he was about to ruin my birthday party, in the sense that was your first impression of him. So admiration level was at the very low bottom.

Now considering these two events, Ms.Veronica is perfect and the random neighbour is a bad guy. But these thoughts about them are only for the time being. If you view Ms.Veronica acting rude with others and fail to fulfil your brain with how your mom described her, she's surely gonna lack respect. You might act like admiring her in person but subconsciously you hate her and vice versa to that random neighbour.

In Conclusion, You are not only valued by the first impression of sight, but also by your future activities of love, care and concern. Discourtesy can peak at the top but avoiding the pits in the future can lead you to a better pathway. 

Thanks for reading!