Money

I don't really understand why the ultimate source of happiness is found in money? I will not say that its wrong but why do people consider that as a major factor? Everyone in this world, including me, hustle for financial independence but why do we never understand, we can neither be happy without money. We work 40 hours in a week to prepare for our upcoming week and 90% of the people don't really enjoy the process. They eventually end up in burnout overtime. It leads us to exhaustion and feelings of negativism.

The guy who has a girlfriend will advise us not to have a girlfriend because of the tiny problems they face on a daily basis. And there we are, who don't even know how having a gf will feel like, but we might have just experienced the glimpse of it and we really loved the exposure glimpse of care and concern by that third person who is not the one from our family. we understand that this is love or may not be, but most people will enquire like, Are they wealthy? Are they a good family? Does she belong to our community? and many more meaningless questions will be asked, I don't want to mention those.

The point is, we might have found meaning, peace and happiness in something we personally went through, but most people don't understand our lifestyle, because everybody is not meant to be the same, that's completely fine. but you shouldn't go and interfere and give opinions about something to others unless they ask us. 

If having more money brings you happiness, that's your own personal view of happiness. You don't wanna brand others the same mentality as you are. It's like filling up your friend's stomach with junk food just because you think it's healthy. They are staying in their comfort zone and let it be. You don't encourage them to take risks, just because you took the risk. They're happy on their own skin.