waiting bus

I was travelling from my school to home, it's a 12km ride, It was a bus ride.The bus stopped in a busstand, and there was a mini bus(kind of like a short trip bus) I think it has been on hold in that place since half n hour. The bus which I was in, goes to the same place which that mini bus would go. The mini bus was actually full and the bus I was in; was not full. So the mini bus driver should act smart now. Now if he doesn't take the bus immediately before my bus departs, then the passengers inside the mini bus will start talking crap about the bus driver. So in my case what he did was? He did the same. He immediately took off the bus, he made his first move and he didn't give any space for my bus to overtake and after some distance the road was free, so my bus overtook that mini bus and the efforts, intention to reach first to the destination for the mini bus failed.😞

Now if we take this mini example to our life, we are looking for effective relationships, career, friends and so on. But we are standing in one area or particular place in our life looking for opportunities, looking for success, looking for real friends. But if we just take off like the mini bus driver after seeing someone half way there on your process surely you are gonna fail.(Now the mini bus driver know, when will the bus arrive and when should he leave the stop) like if it's scheduled on 11:15Am and If the bus I was in arrives by 11:13Am, then my bus is ahead of him and when he sees my bus,  he will be starting the engine, signalling the passenger's that he is gonna leave bla bla bla, and before he does all that, my bus is ahead of him.

So what you can do is? Now in this bus scenario, if the bus took off before 10 or 15 minutes before the arrival of my bus. He is ahead of my bus. He would reach the destination before my bus reaches. So he wins. That's what we should also do. We should be ahead everytime. If we realise that someone is really close to us in grabbing away our goal, in most part we are gonna fail only because of lack of pace, and keeping that as an advantage he is able to come closer to us. Now we can't get that pace again. Because the one behind Is on constant pace and for the most part we can't retain and boost up the pace we lost. So always maintain a constant pace.

Always be ahead, have a plan, know your schedules. If someone is ahead of us, don't just pile-up what you have and start chasing you will fail. If someone grabs your opportunity that's okay, stay calm. You'll surely have an second opportunity to shine. There's always an other way. Don't be just blinded by that one opportunity.